On the Misuse of the Word, 'Conversation'

Is it me or does the use of the word, 'conversation' for just about any communication between human beings cause others to cringe as well?

First, the guy on our local NPR Station talked of having some politician in for a "conversation" back in March; then Hillary Clinton runs on a platform called "Let the Conversation Begin". Now, a report just out on social networks in libraries is called, "Participatory Networks: The Library as Conversation". It concludes (not surprisingly): "...[T]here is now a need to broaden both the scope and scale of the conversation."

Is there no end to this? It's like using 'luxury' to describe condo units. The word begins to lose all meaning -- or even worse begins to take on the opposite of what's intended -- simply because it's used so much.

When I hear 'conversation', increasingly I think: 'insincere attempt to get my attention for trivial, banal or commercial purposes'. Sorry, but I'm just conversation'ed out.

Posted in Submitted by Leo Klein on Sun, 02/04/2007 - 3:14pm.

Leo,
While I agree with you that the word conversation is technically being used incorrectly, I think this is just one of those times when we can see the evolution of a word.

As a lover of diction, words change all the time. The OED was created to chart those changes. Though the overuse of the word, for which I am guilty as well, is becoming commonplace, the content of the use does not bother me.

Michelle (not verified) | Tue, 02/06/2007 - 11:51am

Well, I'm happy to wait till it hits the OED in all its manifestations!

I don't think it will -- or perhaps not in the way its abusers think -- but where there's life there's conversation!

In any case, thanks for the note.

Leo Klein | Tue, 02/06/2007 - 12:29pm

Hi, Sorry, but I posted this tot he wrong post the first time...apologies.

We didn't choose the word randomly, nor casually. It comes from the precepts of Conversation Theory framed originally in the 1970's. It talks about how knowledge is created through interchanges, a back and forth to arrive at common understandings and meanings. Of course academia, like many other fields is guilty of extending or abusing terms, but it seems to fit here.

We also went around a few rounds with some commentors on the topic and thought hard about it. In the original draft we used the term more expansively (a conversation with a book), but restricted it in the final drafts to human discourse (in-person or mediated by some sort of technology). We ended up sticking with it not only because of the conversation theory origin, but also because it reflects an equal partnership between the parties involved in the interchange.

However, we also decided to push the "participatory" term in front of conversation (participatory networks, participatory librarianship). The point of the paper is that knowledge is created, and therefore should be organized around how people come to understand topics, not the artifacts created through the process.

So my question back to you...is this a conversation we are having? How do you bound the definition? What term would you suggest in its place?

Thanks for thinking about this.

David Lankes (not verified) | Sun, 02/11/2007 - 7:43pm

Hi David,

First thanks for the response. And I'll remove the comment on the other post.

To be honest, I didn't approach the word "Conversation" in your paper from the context of the 1970's. I didn't need to. I approached it, not surprisingly, from how it's used (and abused) in 2007.

I think my original post makes that clear.

Words change meaning all the time. Certain words get overused and fall out of fashion. I don't want to be the human thesaurus to your use of language, but replacement words with far less baggage are easy enough to find.

Leo Klein | Sun, 02/11/2007 - 9:00pm

I reread the post, and I see you think the word is over used and is loosing its meaning, but I don't actually see your definition. What is the definition of conversation that everyone is varying from?

David Lankes (not verified) | Mon, 02/12/2007 - 6:33am

Here's my definition: it's overused to imply sincerity and engagement beyond anything warranted in the material itself. It's self-consciously pretentious and routinely distorts the type of communication actually taking place.

Now I can find a hundred examples of where it's used in this way.

It's hard then to avoid these associations despite the efforts of people like you. It's just the English language in its current usage.

Leo Klein | Mon, 02/12/2007 - 10:08am

Leo, I agree with 10000000%. If that is possible. You are a good word spotter and a better word maven. I love this blog, which I just stumbled upon here in... Taiwan. Go figure.

by the way, Leo, wonder what you might think about my new coinage, neologism is what Alex Beam calls it in his June 19 Boston Globe column, titled "I screen, you screen, we all screen" google it, hint hint.... -- i want to call reading on screens as "screening" in order to differentiate it from real reading which i feel only takes place on paper surfaces? agree or disagree? and ask me why I am doing this so publicly and am trying to get the NYTimes to cover me on this idea?

Danny Bloom (not verified) | Sun, 08/16/2009 - 1:18am

About Leo

Leo Klein in front of the DLB
Leo is a writer, designer & librarian living in Chicago. For more information: Home Page | Contact

Talk To Leo

Join the Team

Flickr

www.flickr.com

Featuring

SAVE ILLINOIS LIBRARIES:
Go to SaveIllinoisLibraries.com

SAVE THE INTERNET:
Save the Internet: Click here

LIBSITE WIDGET: Get the LibSite Widget!
LIBSITE NEWSLETTER: Subscribe to the libSite.org Newsletter!
ONE WEB DAY: OneWebDay
DRUPAL ASSOC.: Member of the Drupal Association

LinkedIn

Amazon